The Author Post: Blog #13, "Let Abundance Flow Into Your Life"

Looking back on my childhood, I can see now how God had His hand on my life from the start.  I lived in a beautiful home, had nice clothes to wear, attended good schools, had fun neighborhood kids to hang out with, a big sister whom I looked up to and kind and loving parents.  Money was never discussed, it was simply always in great supply.  My Dad worked hard running his machine shop and Mom taught school off and on while we were growing up.  Life was fun and carefree.


When we were old enough, we got jobs to add to our spending money.  Then, my sister graduated and went to college and I followed a couple years later.  Life as we knew it began to change as we changed. After college, we went out on our own in separate places to begin new lives, and for the first time in my life at that point, it was my responsibility to earn my way.  It was a difficult task that had more disadvantages than advantages.  I was pretty dependent on my parents for so many years, and it was like a slap in the face having to depend mainly on myself.

Life today is somewhat repeating itself, only not exactly the same circumstances.  I am a single mother of two college girls and trying to make my way in the world, not only for myself (being last on the list) but mainly for my daughters.  I want so much to give them everything I had growing up, but is is difficult with only one income in our family, although their father has been a great provider, which has helped immensely.  Still, however, bills and mortgage payments have been challenging each month. Jobs have come and gone in order to try and get a little further each year.

Through the journey, my strength has grown and God's favor has increased.  Then, the tuition payments began.  The past three years have been the most challenging years financially, and yet the most rewarding years at the same time.  I couldn't be more pleased at watching my two girls grow and blossom into beautiful, gifted young ladies.


So, I am saying that, although times can get challenging and unnerving, look to the good in your life that God has placed smack dab in front of you!!  Treasure each and every moment of each and every day.  Expect great things to happen.  Keep your eyes on the Lord and see the good in people.  Be aware of what you say and how you speak to others, especially those in your family.  Make a point to encourage someone each day.  The more you practice these simple acts of honor, the more abundance will flow into your life.

For the past eleven years, I have owned WorldHorizons WebCenter and design web sites for businesses.  I love my work and enjoy the people I meet.  My work has paid the bills and continues to open me to new and exciting places.  I have remained faithful throughout these eleven years, and God has blessed me each month with being able to make enough to stay afloat.  And then there's Tony, the incredible man God placed in my life who makes everything bearable, keeping me on the right track with his words of encouragement.

When I turned fifty last November, I wondered if I would ever make enough to do all the things I needed to do..repairs for my Dad's home (where I grew up), needs for my daughters, new furniture, etc., etc., as well as keep the mortgage and tuition payments up.

I continued to pray, remain faithful, and expect the flow of blessings.  Now, at the precise time in my life that God has chosen, I have become what I always had dreamed of..a signed author.  The first book in my Christian Children's Chapter Book Series: "Bibletoons," is to be published in January, and I have a renewed hope on the horizon.  2012 is certain to be what I have been building up for my whole life!  A new start, a new chance to challenge myself, and a whole new outlook on life.

Has God taken His own sweet time?..Maybe.  But it is just that..His time.  At any rate, I CAN see the light at the end of the tunnel, I feel, because I've lived the kind of Christian life that I think God is proud of, and because I expected it.  

Mind you, things aren't all fun and games.  There have been endless set backs and bumps along the way, but all in all, I've made it to a wonderful place where I'm excited to be.  Now, I'm praying.."God, help me make it just a few more months!"  I know that I'll be working harder that I ever have promoting my book, etc., but I say, "Bring it on!"

I'll always maintain my web business, enjoy writing books, and most importantly of all, watch my girls prosper, for the love of God is so great, and His promise to all who remain obedient and faithful is for that endless abundance to flow right into our streams of income, health and family.  Remember, we WILL all see the strong hands of God at work if we believe!!  Have a peaceful and restful night knowing that God is in complete control of your life. Is there anything better in the world!?

The Author Post: Blog #12, "Choose to Live a Positive Life of Victory"

This is YOUR life, and you can CHOOSE how it goes!  Think about it.  Everything in life is a choice.  When you get up in the morning, you can CHOOSE to be happy or you can choose not to be.  You can CHOOSE to walk around with a skip in your step, an excitement in your heart, a successful attitude and a motivational direction, or you can choose not to.  Whatever you CHOOSE, your life will follow.  Success will  follow achievement.  Abundance will follow gratitude.  Victory will follow determination. Happiness will follow perseverance.  Promise will follow joy.  Blessings will follow faith.

Your mind is a very powerful tool.  Condition it every day with positive thinking, and positive results will follow.  Go around each day knowing that God made you to be EXACTLY who you are...a child of the most High God.  Be FAITHFUL to live and love in obedience.  Practice wisdom and enlarge your knowledge by learning new and exciting things that interest you.  Be kind and caring to those around you. 

Press on to new challenges.  This will keep your life full of joy and excitement.  Keep going until you've reached your goals, even if you have to strive with baby steps to get there...but know that..you WILL get there! 

Refering to my book, "Adventure With Noah," that will be published in January, 2012, Noah CHOSE to obey God.  He CHOSE to keep an open mind.  He CHOSE to remain joyful in the midst of adversity.  He CHOSE not to let others influence his feelings.  He CHOSE to practice wisdom.  He CHOSE to remain obedient to God.  And, he CHOSE to stay in faith.  He used his God-given talents to build an ark, not just any ark, but an ark that would house two of every animal and creature of every species on Earth, as well as himself and his family.  He endured all kinds of negative feedback, but pressed on with determination and excitement.  He was kind and caring to his enemies, and was blessed beyond imagination by God in return.

CHOOSE to be the kind of person that God intended you to be.  Love your family and friends.  Help those who need encouragement, loving your neighbors and all those around you.  Rise high in achieving your goals and dreams.  If you do this, God will witness your actions, and He will be there to lift you up higher..to new and much deserved levels of success.  It is His ultimate promise to you.  He wants you to succeed and do the things in life that He created you for.  This is your purpose in life.  Now, go and proceed on to excellence!

The Author Post: Blog #11, "Through Constant Faith and Expectancy"

I want to tell you how AWESOME God is!  He wants to guide us to fulfill all our dreams, however he wants us also to realize HOW we got there.  For THIS is the greatest accomplishment.  My excitement is not in the fact that I am getting my first book published, the actual success.  My excitement is in the journey that God brought me through.  It is in His work in the long process, blessing me in every step along the way.  The KEY?...to remain in CONSTANT FAITH AND EXPECTANCY.

I did not write my book, it is an inspired work from God, and I give Him all the credit and Glory.  This is what must happen to become truly successful.  Using God as your teacher in all things and staying in tune with Him is a must.

On my road to becoming a signed author, I took an online children's writing course.  The first thing I read in the course manual as an introduction was not to get your hopes up to get published on the very first submission, and that you have to submit your manuscript to several publishing companies first before you become noticed.  I also read how not to personalize your query (cover) letter and just get right to the point. I sighed and thought, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." "I know I can beat these odds." I started to believe and began planting the seeds of success.

After that course ended, I concentrated on my manuscript that I had begun some time ago.  I rewrote parts, editing it until I was pleased with the words.  I then wrote a "personal" and from the heart query letter.  Now, I needed a publishing company.  I prayed for God to guide me to the right one.  I got on the computer and Googled Christian publishing companies and Tate Publishing was number one on the list, being one of the top Christian publishing companies in the country.  I thought, "Okay, why not go with the best."  I researched their web site to the max and loved everything about them...  Especially when I read, "Christian-based, family-owned, mainline publishing organization with a mission to discover and market unknown authors."  "Join the Tate Publishing family today and make your dreams a reality!"  I thought, "Oh, this could work."  My faith told me that God brought me to them for a reason and I was at rest with my decision. Then, I read, "We receive tens of thosands of submissions and author inquiries each year, but we choose to accept only a small percentage of the authors who submit manuscripts to us."  Wow.  More doubt, but still pressing on through faith, shaking that doubt off. 

I went on to complete my manuscript, and the next step before submitting it was the most important step.  I held my manuscript, got down on my knees and blessed it, asking God to direct it to the right people who will love, nurture and accept it. THEN, and ONLY THEN was it ready for submission.

I received an email right away that confirmed they had received it.  Then, I waited about two weeks and received another email saying that it had been given to an Acquistions Editor who was assigned to me and she would be reviewing it within the next few days.  All this time in waiting, I continued praying, having the distinct and confident feeling of faith and expectancy that I would become published.

Finally, on a Tuesday night around 7pm, the doorbell rang.  I thought, "Who could that be at this hour?"  I opened the door and the UPS man was hopping back in his truck.  Inside the door he had left a Next Day Air envelope from Tate Publishing.  I immediately knew my manuscript had been excepted.  Why else would I receive such a package?  I opened it and read the words which began, "We are so thrilled to have the opportunity to issue you a formal offer for your book "A Man Named Noah." and that my book was "chosen on the basis of writing ability, concept and most importantly - marketability."  I then read the words written below by the Acquisitions Editor, "I enjoyed receiving your chapter book!  Great fit for Tate Publishing." ...and God knew it would be, all along!

Excitement and joy spread over me.  All I could think of was to thank God for His promise, which I did, and I wept tears of happiness for the blessings I had received.  I ran into my daughter's room, who, at my appearance, thought something was tragically wrong.  I handed her the letter and she danced around the room with me in great joy.

Always remember not to let doubt from the enemy creep in through negative people stating things against what you're working toward.  "Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."  I, very humbily, became published with my very first submission, and with a "personalized" query letter, through the Grace of God and the people he led me to.

So, you see, it isn't the actual success that is exciting.  No, the REAL excitement lies in the relationship gained with God through the whole process.  You see, He will work for our good if we succeed and obey for His good..and when you DO succeed, let others know the incredible way you got there..with God, first and foremost leading the way. Our true success is knowing Him and letting Him become the author of our life.

The Author Post: Blog #10, "Life is Like a Box of Chocolates.."

"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get," as quoted in the movie, Forrest Gump, is so true, and one of my favorite sayings.  To elaborate on this quote, "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get", but you can set yourself up for great things!   When you put your trust in God, All things are possible and you know your "gonna get" abundant blessings!

When you live a life of expectancy, favor follows.  Live every moment of every day in awe of what God is blessing you with.  Be observant of His goodness.  Thank Him often.  Speak words of encouragement over others, sharing compliments at every opportunity.  Love those around you, especially those who matter most.  Thrive where you're at in life and God will bring you higher.  Pray continuously for strength, wisdom, power, and health.  Bloom where you are planted.

You never know what God will bless you with in this life.  But, if you keep your options open to God's ways, you know that things can only get better.  He wants you to live a life that will please Him..a life that He has perfectly molded to what He created you for and what He created you to be.

As an author, God gives me the inspiration to pour out my heart into my work.  I feel that is what I'm meant to do and to be.  I want my words to enlighten and enrich the lives of my readers, to bring hope, healing and a special knowledge of God and all He can do.  My life is becoming richer in spirit, faith, prosperity and joy.  New ventures are up ahead and I'm so excited at the path God is directing for me.

So, keep your mind pure and good, thinking nice thoughts.  Watch uplifting programs, read books of the heart, learn valuable lessons.  Think of ways you can help others and make a difference in this world, one random act of kindness at a time.

You, too, as many of you are already experiencing, can live in the splendor of the moment by becoming aware of what is around you, all that is good, and keep your faith right out in front of you.

I have become acquainted with dozens and dozens of fellow Christian authors lately that have spoken words of encouragement and praise to me.  It has given me a whole new sense of worth, and a whole new outlook on things to come, a feeling that, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!"  Philippians 4:13 New King James Version (NKJV).  Thank you, for giving me that renewed hope in my life.

We're all in this together..this life of striving to succeed.  Let your ventures begin with the face of Our Almighty shining through your lives and bringing you to the place of your dreams.  When you do this, you'll always get "the chocolates" you most desire.

Keep writing or doing whatever God has brought you to do, keep smiling (it is contagious), and keep me informed of your wonderful progress!  Love and Blessings to you all.

The Author Post: Blog #9, "In Memory Of..."

As I reflect on this somber weekend, I think back to my history books and the teachings of all the memories of past wars that our brave American troops fought in, and knowing that none of those who lost their precious lives died in vain.  We think of all those who survived the war, but have since passed on.  We think of all those who were injured, some beyond repair, who live with those injuries.  We think of all those loved ones who have gone before us and the thoughts, dreams and influence they had on our lives.

As a writer, I look beyond the ordinary thoughts of yesterday, going a step further to emphasize all the faded moments when their lives were rich and thriving, humble and distinguished.  I look beyond those thoughts of ideas, dreams, and excitement they once knew, that we must keep alive for the sake of our children and the ones who remain.  I look beyond to a place of complete tranquility, that rests on all of what they stood for here on earth, a place which remains in our hearts as treasured memories.

If we trace back through the years, dating back to the American Civil War from April 12, 1861- April 9, 1865, we remember that the casualties out-numbered any other war fought in our country.  620,000+ lost their lives in battle, by disease, and in enemy camps.  The many individual battles had devastating results of casualties, like the most horrific being The Battle at Gettysburg (51,112), the 2nd being The Battle of  Chickamauga (34,624).  3rd, The Battle at Chancellorsville (30,099), and the list goes on and on...Spotsylvania, Antietam, Wilderness, etc.  

We think of the many wars and hundreds upon hundreds of battles fought like the Revolutionary War,  The World Wars, Vietnam, War of 1812, and the many other wars that Americans participated in, including the war in Iraq and those who perished on September 11, 2001.  The past history of our Great Country, One Nation Under God, makes us proud and sentimental to our leaders and soldiers in the military, and those who led our country to the best of their abilities.

There are also so many in our thoughts, our loved ones that we miss.  I think of my treasured Mother who went to be with the Lord in August of 2007.  I feel her presence each day, her exceptional spirit guiding me into my future.  She was always my encouragement, and still is, even more so today, with whom I dedicate this post to, and also to Nicholas A. DiLeva, Sr., my fiance's wonderful father, a unique and inspiring man who was one of the greatest influences in my life, and truly one of the kindest people I ever knew.  His family, including Tony, means the world to me.

Memories of those we loved from the past, whether 100 years ago or 1 day ago, will always give us a feeling of thankfulness...being thankful that they graced our lives with their smiles and thoughts.

As we look back, we seek rest.  May it give us great comfort knowing that our lives are better and more fulfilled having known them. Let us also know that their lives are greater now, living at the right hand of God in the most splendid of places.  May all our beautiful soldiers, spouses, mothers, fathers, siblings, relatives, friends, teachers and acquaintances live on in our hearts, minds, spirits and souls forever and ever until we meet again.  God Bless You All on this Memorial Day and always.

The Author Post: Blog #8, "Cleansing..Out With the Old"

Last time, I spoke about planting seeds for your future.  Well, another idea in making those seeds flourish is to cleanse out the old, which will, in turn, bring in new challenges, new hope and new promises into your life.

I cleaned my garage last week and got rid of "STUFF" I honestly didn't use.  It felt great!  Now, as I go through my home and look around my basement, I'm thinking, "How in the world did all these things accumulate!?"  I felt like I needed to call CLEAN HOUSE, the TV show!  Anyway, as I made myself begin to clean the cellar, I felt the house become lighter and less cluttered, throwing away junk from my past.

That is how God wants us all to become...less cluttered and letting go of the past so that He can bless us with the promises of our future.  We have a very difficult time "letting go" of things, so we hold on to them, thinking that one day we might need them.  So, all these things that we hold on to become reminders of things from our past.  What we need to do is look toward the future instead of living in our rear view mirrors.  

Now, as I reflect on this, it is easy to breeze through the "JUNK," sifting out my past and getting rid of the burdens and chains that have been placed on me.  I feel a renewed sense of joy and know that my future is up ahead and very bright!!

Today, I had to watch them haul away something very dear to me..my Mom's car..the Lincoln she had so loved to drive.  It was something in her life that she enjoyed so much.  She gained pleasure from driving us all around all the time...and it was in my care for almost four years, since she had gone to be with the Lord.  I know it was just an object, but when I drove it and sat in it, I somehow felt closer to her, as if she were there with me.  I kept it for sentimental reasons, and spent a great deal of money keeping it running. 

Her Lincoln, a beautiful, cream-colored car to look at, was in good running condition.  However, the bottom, which was not visible to the eye, was rusting.  It is kind of like you and me...we may look great on the outside, but on the inside, we may carry heavy burdens that aren't visible to the eye and that make us less valuable to those around us.  We need to let go of these burdens.

I knew that I couldn't afford to keep her car, and not knowing what would need to be repaired next,  I sold it for so much less than I put into it.  However, I knew that it was good to us.  My daughter learned to drive in it and we had some goods times taking it around.  But, needless to say, it was holding me back.

I had tears in my eyes as I lifted my camera and took one last picture of it, before I watched it slowly disappear out of sight.  I had a sad feeling of emptiness, as if part of me had gone with it, and at the same time, had a feeling of relief.  As I thought about it, I realized that it was only an object and my Mom's spirit lives on in everything around me.

Cleansing...out with the old, in with the new, gives one a sense of renewal, knowing that better things are around the corner.

As an author, I can write about new ideas, new dreams and the new ventures up ahead.  To me, getting rid of clutter unfolds new possibilities, looking at my life as just beginning.

Unload the junk, clutter and distractions in your life today.  Let yourself feel lighter, lifting your burdens.  Let Go and Let God.  Thanks for listening!

The Author Post: Blog #7, "Planting Seeds"

Don't you just love the Springtime?!  Everything seems new and fresh..nature is becoming green again and new life is creeping into the world.  As I reflect on this past winter, I become more aware of another new season.  A fresh new season of hope and splendor, and with it, comes new horizons.

Have you ever wondered why this season is called "Spring?" I like to think that it is because it gives you a renewed sense of motivation, putting a "Spring" in your step, "Springing" forward to new experiences that life has in store for you.  "Spring" into your life now, in this most perfect season.  How, you ask?  It's simple!  BEGIN BY SOWING SEEDS!  

This is the season for planting SEEDS and watching your earnest effort flourish into beautiful growth.  Well, you can also plant seeds of goodness in your life.  A seed is easy to plant.  All you need to do is take an idea that you are passionate to fulfill and ask God to nourish it.  When your idea comes into light with answers to prayer, that is when your seeds are prospering.  

Think of all that you want out of life; every idea that you've put on the back burner, dreams that you've tucked away and that you bring out every once in awhile, saying, "Someday, maybe." Well, get all those ideas and dreams back out.  Think hard about them.  Pray about them.  And, that is when you'll be PLANTING SEEDS for your future.

When I was working on my manuscript and praying along the way, I was planting the seed for success.

When I was thinking on the idea of becoming an author, I was planting the seed for accomplishment.

PLANT SEEDS in YOUR life today and then watch them sprout!  Just the mere thought of something you want to bring about is planting the seed.  That is the first step to MAKING  things in your life happen.

Make your list of seeds today and share them here.  I'm proud of you all!  Until next time...I gotta go water my seeds.

The Author Post: Blog #6, "Focus"

As an author, or anyone who has a dream for that matter, you must remain focused and aware of all that is around you.  That means, stay in tuned to your thoughts and surroundings so you can create wonderful ideas.  This is the main ingredient in writing.  Fresh new ideas that you gather from life will help you become a great "thinker."  Write down any interesting thoughts that come to mind.  Even names you like, places you like to go, and people you may meet along the way.  As you will see, when you begin to put all these thoughts and ideas together, you will possess the makings of a great writer.  Let your mind take you to places you would love to visit, or make up beautiful places in your mind.

Also stay in tuned to what is true and good, obeying God's word, so that you will be blessed in every endeavor.  Then, as your book begins to take shape, so will your life.  You will become all that God has created you to become, and rich, wonderful blessings will follow you everywhere you go and in all that you do.  Have a good night's rest, friends, and I'll talk to you again soon with more uplifting thoughts.